It all began with a simple WhatsApp message in 2020. Introduced by a mutual friend (Deji Okunlola), Oladimeji wasted no time making his intentions clear—just a few days later, he sent me the sweetest email, officially asking me out. At the time, he was in Italy, and I was in Nigeria, but even miles apart, something special had already begun. 

Few months into our relationship, as I prepared for my move to the United States, Oladimeji did something that truly showed his heart—he flew all the way from Europe to Nigeria just to spend time with me. That was the first time we met in person, and on that very night, he went down on one knee and placed a promise ring on my finger. It was the beginning of a love story built on faith, intentionality, and deep commitment. 

From the very start, Oladimeji’s love and intentionality melted my heart. I will never forget my first birthday in our relationship—we had only been dating for a short while, yet he went above and beyond to throw me a surprise birthday dinner. It was unexpected, thoughtful, and completely heartwarming. The fact that he had already put so much effort into making me feel special so early in our journey showed me the kind of man he was. That night, I knew I wasn’t just in a relationship—I was cherished. 

From planning surprise birthday dinners to virtual date nights, sending thoughtful gifts, and always making me feel cherished, he has shown me time and time again that love knows no distance. Though we spent the first 18 months of our relationship across different continents, he made sure I never felt far from his heart. I remember joking to a friend that I had “been to London” because Oladimeji would take me on virtual tours of his trips. 

Beyond the grand gestures, it’s the little things that make his love so special. He buys me books just because he knows how much I love to read. He celebrates all my milestones—big or small—with handwritten notes, heartfelt emails, romantic dinner nights, and even vacation trips to create the most beautiful memories together. He is always intentional, always present, always reminding me how deeply loved I am. 

One of the most defining seasons of our love was my journey through grad school. Pursuing my degree came with challenges—long nights, tough deadlines, and moments of exhaustion—but Oladimeji was my rock. He supported me in ways I never imagined, cheering me on every step of the way. Whether it was helping me with assignments, sending me money via Wise, encouraging me through stressful times, or simply reminding me of my strength, he made the journey easier and more meaningful. His unwavering belief in me kept me going, and I knew I wasn’t alone in the process. 

Then came 2022, another defining moment in our journey. Though he had built a remarkable life in Europe and the United Kingdom—having earned his PhD, secured UK Global Talent status, and received exceptional job offers—Oladimeji made a choice that left me in awe. Without me

ever asking, he pursued bigger opportunities in the U.S., and when he finally moved, it was a dream come true. His sacrifice, patience, and intentionality showed me the depth of his love. 

Oladimeji is my answered prayer, my perfect match. God was so mindful of me when He sent me a man who embodies kindness, patience, wisdom, and a heart rooted in faith. He is so smart and very humble. He loves me with a love so pure, so sacrificial—just as Christ loves the church. With him, every moment is full of laughter, warmth, and joy. He is my safe place, my biggest cheerleader, and the love of my life. 

And now, we step into forever, hand in hand, hearts intertwined, knowing that this love story—one that God orchestrated—is only just beginning.